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Just before Officer Dunngeon used her "Brass" power to close the door on a active subject she had this to say....
female p.o. said the FAITHFUL partner should get everything. Just to say, "Hey, I cheated on you, I'm a dirtbag, you should only get half or nothing," is acceptable after that person trusted you with their LIFE and everything you've built up together? The least you can do, as in any sort of legal proceeding where one has been wronged, is to pay off with money... and in the case of breaking the bond of a marriage (or trust), I think to hand over everything is the right thing to do, since some dirty skank is obviously what you really want more than your wife, kids, house, etc. She didn't mean to say you should take everything in any irreconcilable differences type of divorce, she meant after the lowest of the low - infedelity.
Anyway, this topic has seemed to have gone off the funny side and into the battle of the sexes. That, and the ATM has run out of cash. So on that note, topic closed!
So of course I had to get my words in...
Define "faithful"…If you mean a spouse who took care of all, and I mean all the home duties while the working spouse worked 40, 50, or 60 hours a week at their job then that is faithful. If I am working my butt off on details on top of the regular hours I expect my uniforms to be clean and my shoes polished at least every other day. When I am doing 60+ hours a week I just want to come home and eat and go to sleep so I can be awake for the next 12-16 hours shift I'm going to work. To me that is faithful. If you do all that and keep yourself looking good for me as in fit and trim and ready for my needs when I can find the time and strength after a long week then that is faithful. If you do all that then if I am stupid enough to cheat on you then you deserve all the judge gives you.
But if you are like the average woman and feel that you deserve all that I have worked for just because you had sex with me for a certain period of time that in my book that is nothing more then a form of prostitution and you know the trade name for those working girls...
female p.o. said the FAITHFUL partner should get everything. Just to say, "Hey, I cheated on you, I'm a dirtbag, you should only get half or nothing," is acceptable after that person trusted you with their LIFE and everything you've built up together? The least you can do, as in any sort of legal proceeding where one has been wronged, is to pay off with money... and in the case of breaking the bond of a marriage (or trust), I think to hand over everything is the right thing to do, since some dirty skank is obviously what you really want more than your wife, kids, house, etc. She didn't mean to say you should take everything in any irreconcilable differences type of divorce, she meant after the lowest of the low - infedelity.
Anyway, this topic has seemed to have gone off the funny side and into the battle of the sexes. That, and the ATM has run out of cash. So on that note, topic closed!
So of course I had to get my words in...
Define "faithful"…If you mean a spouse who took care of all, and I mean all the home duties while the working spouse worked 40, 50, or 60 hours a week at their job then that is faithful. If I am working my butt off on details on top of the regular hours I expect my uniforms to be clean and my shoes polished at least every other day. When I am doing 60+ hours a week I just want to come home and eat and go to sleep so I can be awake for the next 12-16 hours shift I'm going to work. To me that is faithful. If you do all that and keep yourself looking good for me as in fit and trim and ready for my needs when I can find the time and strength after a long week then that is faithful. If you do all that then if I am stupid enough to cheat on you then you deserve all the judge gives you.
But if you are like the average woman and feel that you deserve all that I have worked for just because you had sex with me for a certain period of time that in my book that is nothing more then a form of prostitution and you know the trade name for those working girls...