Exactly.While we (LEO's) are required to be tough and hard, sometimes what we experience on or off the job can have the potential to overwhelm us. Sometimes a good bitch session with the guys over a beer can make you feel a little better, BUT if what ails you goes deeper, I urge anyone (sworn or civilian) that when that starts to happen, reach out to your Peer Support Officers, Stress Unit, Mental Health Pro, or whomever handles this stuff in your Department, Company, etc. Don't view it as weakness, look at it as an OT that only YOU can respond to. RIP Rogers
Those reality shows have nothing to do with reality! I wonder if it played a role in his decision ... Reality show participants take their own lives at alarming rate!I actually enjoyed the show. I would NEVER had thought somebody like that could....Well, We all know what it means: so much above is true. Some of us have demons. RIP Pat!
So true! And the pain they are in is there to stayThe pain he walked with is now shared amongst those he left behind. Complete with the gaping hole he left in their lives.
This, I know all too well.![]()
Often times it is hard to see what the person is feeling. They put up a proverbial wall. If you notice a severe mood change (I.e. really down to relaxed) or extremely quiet, be concerned. Take it from someone who's been through it with a parent who tried and failed to commit suicide. The person more than likely won't think something is wrong or will try to refuse help. Be persistent.Those reality shows have nothing to do with reality! I wonder if it played a role in his decision ... Reality show participants take their own lives at alarming rate!
So true! And the pain they are in is there to stayThey will wonder what they could've done ... 9 years ago my friend managed to full us all! She was preparing for it for weeks, may be months ... wrote letters, instructions, packed her staff ... We all thought she is on upswing, she seemed very happy and upbeat ...
I hope other officers are getting concealing now, they really need it!