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California Supreme Court overturns gay marriage ban

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Posted by: CJIS

California Supreme Court overturns gay marriage ban

latimes.com — The California Supreme Court ruled today that same-sex couples should be permitted to marry, rejecting state marriage laws as discriminatory.

Mass. is not alone.



Posted by: PapaBear

In all probability it will become a ballot initiative in November, again! This time it will be to change the State Constitution so it states that marriage in California is between and man and a woman. That was the entire argument this go around - the equal rights issue.

As was stated in a discussion the yesterday, if the court, in its infinite wisdom, is using that argument, then they must rule that polygamy, marriage to a child under 16, and many other laws must be negated in an effort to appease all individuals who wish to claim equal rights.



Posted by: dingbat

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Originally Posted by PapaBear View Post
As was stated in a discussion the yesterday, if the court, in its infinite wisdom, is using that argument, then they must rule that polygamy, marriage to a child under 16, and many other laws must be negated in an effort to appease all individuals who wish to claim equal rights.
How does anyone figure that? If anyone, regardless of race, gender, or creed is allowed to be married to one other person of whatever legal age is decided on by the state, and enjoy the benifits of being married, economic and otherwise, how is that not equal? If you allowed polygamists to marry multiple people, just because it's their religeon, I think that would be discrimination.



Posted by: MM1799

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Originally Posted by PapaBear
As was stated in a discussion the yesterday, if the court, in its infinite wisdom, is using that argument, then they must rule that polygamy, marriage to a child under 16, and many other laws must be negated in an effort to appease all individuals who wish to claim equal rights.
Same sex marriage is between two willing people.

Polygamy is usually setup and one (or both) of the parties are forced into the marriage -- thus denying them their rights.
Underage marriage is with a CHILD who cannot make their own legal decisions yet.

For the record, I really dont care about gay marriage. I have no problem with it because I do believe in equal rights to all -- not just as long as it follows some predetermined format. As long as they aren't trying to marry me, then I couldn't care less.

I don't think polygamy, underage marriage and gay marriage belong in the same sentence, though.



Posted by: resqjyw0

I personally believe homosexuality is a psychological disorder. God created two sexes for a reason. I have yet to find someone that agress with me, but that's my personal belief.

One of the things that pissed me off most about Mass. allowing same-sex marriage is now all the gays and lesbians would swarm to MA to get married and set up residence. I have yet to meet a homosexual that wasn't a raging liberal. They all seem to live in their own little world and refuse to accept the reality of things. As the saying goes, "soft as a sneaker full of shit." I attribute why this state is so screwed up in part to the gays. Not every liberal is gay, so I can't attribute all of it.

They're among those that are fighting to take away my privilege to hunt, and my right to keep and bear arms. They do it because it doesn't affect them, they believe animals have a right to life and they want to feel like they're doing something "purposeful" with their lives. Same-sex marriage doesn't affect me so why should I give a shit. Marriage is between a man and a woman as far as I'm concerned. I want to feel like I'm doing something purposeful with my life by attempting to preserve this country's foundation.

This country was founded on Christian beliefs. If you're going to allow same-sex marriage, you may as well take God out of the Plege of Allegiance and off our currency.

If everyone was normal and was attracted to the opposite sex, this wouldn't be an issue of equal rights. In fact, this wouldn't be an issue at all.

Fighting same-sex marriage is a lost cause because all people shout is equal rights and discrimination. If they're not fighting for it then they don't care and figure why not because they refuse to look beyond the surface of things. Nothing will ever change if that is the case. So if that's the way things are going to be, then its good that CA overturned it. It takes some pressure off MA.



Posted by: PaulKersey

[quote=resqjyw0;288294]God created two sexes for a reason. I have yet to find someone that agress with me,

You just did.


This country was founded on Christian beliefs. If you're going to allow same-sex marriage, you may as well take God out of the Plege of Allegiance and off our currency.
quote]

Stand by, they're working on it. They already did so from the school and court system.



Posted by: masscopguy

After reading your post Mr. resgjywo, I believe you are the one with the disorder. If you are a Cop, which based on your command of the English language would find hard to believe, I am troubled that you are charged with protecting the general public and people like yourself, with such ignorant and narrow minded views are populating the gene poll. Gay people are not flocking to Massachusetts to get married. This is a fact that is quite easy to check. Massachusetts, which is suffering from a decline in population, has seen a small increase in well educated, decent, tax paying professionals who have moved to the
Bay State because it affords basic civil rights to all its citizens.


As for all Gay people being liberals, 1. You don't know what you are talking about. And 2. I don't think you have had enough contact with Gay people to make that statement. In 1990, I was one of 3 Co-Founders of the Log Cabin Club, a national group of moderate to conservative Gay Republicans. The group is still very active today with chapters in more than 40 states and a national office in DC. I left the Republican party when it was taken over by right wing nuts. Most gay people I know and I think I know many, are fiscal conservatives and social liberals.

I find it funny when some Cops are all for the liberal ideals that they benefit from, like union representation, overtime pay, disability and retirement benefits, but are against progressive social ideals that in the long run make for a better society.

And after this post, I am fully prepared for the onslaught of name calling and insipid remarks that are headed in my direction.



Posted by: MM1799

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Originally Posted by resqjyw0
They're among those that are fighting to take away my privilege to hunt, and my right to keep and bear arms. They do it because it doesn't affect them,
And yet there are also "normal" (as you put it) Americans who want to take away those rights also -- I guess its not just a gay thing. You make some pretty broad generalizations. It's actually kind of sad to see such closed-mindedness.
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Originally Posted by resqjyw0
This country was founded on Christian beliefs. If you're going to allow same-sex marriage, you may as well take God out of the Plege of Allegiance and off our currency.
Yet not everyone is Christain so why should everyone fall under those beliefs? Everytime someone tries to push their ideals (ISLAM) on everyone; people are up in arms (as I am). Why should you be allowed to push your ideals on everyone. How is that different?
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Originally Posted by resqjyw0
If everyone was normal and was attracted to the opposite sex, this wouldn't be an issue of equal rights. In fact, this wouldn't be an issue at all.
What exactly gave you the authority to be the be-all, end-all of what is considered "normal"?
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Originally Posted by resqjyw0
Fighting same-sex marriage is a lost cause because all people shout is equal rights and discrimination.
Are they not citizens of the United States of America? Are they not guaranteed inalienable rights under the Constitution and the Bill of Rights?

I believe very strongly in the 2nd amendment and believe that as a citizen my right to bear arms cannot be taken away.
How can I be a hypocrite and ask another citizen to forgo their 1st amendment rights if they are clearly being excluded because they are gay?



Posted by: PaulKersey

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Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
but are against progressive social ideals that in the long run make for a better society.
Says who?
How, or why, would it make for a better society? Because a certain group thinks it would?

What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620? Some look at this relatively new {free for all, anything goes} attitude as destructive. Many believe it's tearing down the foundation that this country was built upon.

Look around. Tell me if this country is going in the right direction.

What's next? After all, anything goes, right?

That German Shepherd across the street is looking mighty fine.








Posted by: resqjyw0

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After reading your post Mr. resgjywo, I believe you are the one with the disorder.
I'm the one that is gay? Typical childish response.

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If you are a Cop, which based on your command of the English language would find hard to believe,
What exactly is that supposed to mean?

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I am troubled that you are charged with protecting the general public and people like yourself, with such ignorant and narrow minded views are populating the gene poll.
So because I happen to dislike gays because they are liberals (or as you more specifically put it, social liberals) that are destroying the foundation of this country, I would treat them differently than anyone else on the job? Where have I made any indication of that? I guess you're "troubled that we are charged with protecting the general public," a significant portion of which is anti-police, because you somehow believe we treat people differently? Honestly, I am failing at finding any logic or reasoning in your post. It is most likely because there isn't any.

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Gay people are not flocking to Massachusetts to get married. This is a fact that is quite easy to check. Massachusetts, which is suffering from a decline in population, has seen a small increase in well educated, decent, tax paying professionals who have moved to the Bay State because it affords basic civil rights to all its citizens.
Affords basic civil rights to all of its citizens? HA! You can't be serious. Last time I checked, the right to keep and bear arms was a basic civil right but the hypocrite liberals continue infringing on that right.

It honestly doesn't surprise me that there is an increase in well educated, decent, tax paying "professionals" considering we have the best colleges in the country. But, just because someone is book smart and passed their CPA exam doesn't mean they have common sense.

The decline in population is probably a result from a large number of people with the common sense and motivation to escape this living hell of a state.

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As for all Gay people being liberals, 1. You don't know what you are talking about. And 2. I don't think you have had enough contact with Gay people to make that statement. In 1990, I was one of 3 Co-Founders of the Log Cabin Club, a national group of moderate to conservative Gay Republicans. The group is still very active today with chapters in more than 40 states and a national office in DC.
Wow, I bet you feel proud of that. Honestly, I couldn't care less. I never asked for your resume.

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I left the Republican party when it was taken over by right wing nuts. Most gay people I know and I think I know many, are fiscal conservatives and social liberals.
This is a social issue, not a fiscal one. Therefore, I rest my case...

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Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
I find it funny when some Cops are all for the liberal ideals that they benefit from, like union representation, overtime pay, disability and retirement benefits, but are against progressive social ideals that in the long run make for a better society.
Going against nature, against religion, against the foundation of this country is progressive? Maybe in your fantasy land, not in reality. But hey, keep spreading your counter-instinctive drivel and maybe one day you'll be able to reverse the growing human population. The world is already significantly overpopulated. That is about the only good that could come of this.



Posted by: 5-0

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This is a social issue, not a fiscal one. Therefore, I rest my case...
haha... I chuckled.



Posted by: Grasshopper

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Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post
Says who?
How, or why, would it make for a better society? Because a certain group thinks it would?

What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620? Some look at this relatively new {free for all, anything goes} attitude as destructive. Many believe it's tearing down the foundation that this country was built upon.

Look around. Tell me if this country is going in the right direction.

What's next? After all, anything goes, right?

That German Shepherd across the street is looking mighty fine.



"What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620?"

Since 1620!? 1620???
You must be kidding!? Remember a few things called slavery, segregation, sanctioned lynchings? Neither women nor racial and ethnic minorities being allowed to vote?! Remember Irish Need Not Apply?! Do you remember the law in 1647 I believe it was where if a catholic was to be seen in the Massachusetts Bay Colony then he or she was to be put to death (since catholics were thought to have a "mental defect" or be afflicted by demons or in essence be sub human...so they'd be going to hell anyway). What about in Alabama just a few years ago the ban on interracial marriage (in 200 or 2002 I believe) was lifted by a narrow margin and in 1998 a similar ban lifted in South Carolina by only 41%!



Posted by: screamineagle

jesus christ here we go again.



Posted by: Grasshopper

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Originally Posted by PapaBear View Post
In all probability it will become a ballot initiative in November, again! This time it will be to change the State Constitution so it states that marriage in California is between and man and a woman. That was the entire argument this go around - the equal rights issue.

As was stated in a discussion the yesterday, if the court, in its infinite wisdom, is using that argument, then they must rule that polygamy, marriage to a child under 16, and many other laws must be negated in an effort to appease all individuals who wish to claim equal rights.
People have made this same argument with the same reasons when arguing against interracial marriage...actually they still do at Bob Jones University and somewhat at Liberty University

1620? You must be kidding me! What has been working since 1620? You do remember we declared our independence from England over 100 years later because some of those things weren't working! Women weren't even allowed the same right to vote as men until 300 years later! Ever hear of women's suffrage



"What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620?" I hope you're not serious here!



Posted by: Sniper

WOW. That is ALL I have to say...........



Posted by: 5-0

I predict great things for this thread, and at least one banned member. Forum posting is SERIOUS BUSINESS...



Posted by: PaulKersey

[quote=Grasshopper;288352]"
Since 1620!? 1620???
You must be kidding!? Remember a few things called slavery, segregation, sanctioned lynchings?

Those are some of the things that happen when a country strays away from the good book and goes with what's in style {Gay marriage}.
Follow it, and everything will be fine.


Do you remember the law in 1647

Sorry dear, but that's a little before my time.

Women weren't even allowed the same right to vote as men until 300 years later!

Now I know why.



Posted by: Grasshopper

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Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
After reading your post Mr. resgjywo, I believe you are the one with the disorder. If you are a Cop, which based on your command of the English language would find hard to believe, I am troubled that you are charged with protecting the general public and people like yourself, with such ignorant and narrow minded views are populating the gene poll. Gay people are not flocking to Massachusetts to get married. This is a fact that is quite easy to check. Massachusetts, which is suffering from a decline in population, has seen a small increase in well educated, decent, tax paying professionals who have moved to the
Bay State because it affords basic civil rights to all its citizens.


As for all Gay people being liberals, 1. You don't know what you are talking about. And 2. I don't think you have had enough contact with Gay people to make that statement. In 1990, I was one of 3 Co-Founders of the Log Cabin Club, a national group of moderate to conservative Gay Republicans. The group is still very active today with chapters in more than 40 states and a national office in DC. I left the Republican party when it was taken over by right wing nuts. Most gay people I know and I think I know many, are fiscal conservatives and social liberals.

I find it funny when some Cops are all for the liberal ideals that they benefit from, like union representation, overtime pay, disability and retirement benefits, but are against progressive social ideals that in the long run make for a better society.

And after this post, I am fully prepared for the onslaught of name calling and insipid remarks that are headed in my direction.
I've known gay republicans, gay Christians and even gay cops! Some of the gay republicans I have known were some of the most brilliant and well versed in domestic and foreign policy (one of them is one of the reasons I registered republican)! Some of the most religious and well read Christians I have ever known, were gay! My career in law enforcement has only begun but I'd venture to say that I'm sure some of the best officers out there might just be gay! I will not impose my beliefs upon anyone else as I would hope others would treat me similarly.



Posted by: NewEngland2007

"What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620?"


The largest consumers of lesbian porn, you mean?



Posted by: resqjyw0

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Originally Posted by MM1799 View Post
And yet there are also "normal" (as you put it) Americans who want to take away those rights also -- I guess its not just a gay thing. You make some pretty broad generalizations. It's actually kind of sad to see such closed-mindedness.
My exact words: "I attribute why this state is so screwed up in part to the gays. Not every liberal is gay, so I can't attribute all of it."


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Yet not everyone is Christain so why should everyone fall under those beliefs? Everytime someone tries to push their ideals (ISLAM) on everyone; people are up in arms (as I am). Why should you be allowed to push your ideals on everyone. How is that different?
Ok. Religion aside. It still goes against nature.

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What exactly gave you the authority to be the be-all, end-all of what is considered "normal"?
What is normal is heterosexual relationships. It is natural. I don't think we have gotten to the point yet where two guys fucking each other in the ass is normal.

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Are they not citizens of the United States of America? Are they not guaranteed inalienable rights under the Constitution and the Bill of Rights?
So you're saying we should support someone's psychological disorder that goes against nature by being homosexual all because of inalienable rights? Oh, so someone is as thin as a rail but still thinks their fat. They have an eating disorder by being anorexic. We should support their disorder because of their inalienable right to pursue happiness?

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How can I be a hypocrite and ask another citizen to forgo their 1st amendment rights if they are clearly being excluded because they are gay?
We're not prohibiting them from freedom of speech. They can still express their homosexuality. Give them civil unions if they need some legal way of expressing their love. Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad, maybe one day they'll wake up and get their act straightened out.



Posted by: Grasshopper

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Originally Posted by resqjyw0 View Post
My exact words: "I attribute why this state is so screwed up in part to the gays. Not every liberal is gay, so I can't attribute all of it."




Ok. Religion aside. It still goes against nature.



What is normal is heterosexual relationships. It is natural. I don't think we have gotten to the point yet where two guys fucking each other in the ass is normal.



So you're saying we should support someone's psychological disorder that goes against nature by being homosexual all because of inalienable rights? Oh, so someone is as thin as a rail but still thinks their fat. They have an eating disorder by being anorexic. We should support their disorder because of their inalienable right to pursue happiness?



We're not prohibiting them from freedom of speech. They can still express their homosexuality. Give them civil unions if they need some legal way of expressing their love. Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad, maybe one day they'll wake up and get their act straightened out.
"Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad, maybe one day they'll wake up and get their act straightened out."

As far as I know...It's legal in Massachusetts for two people of the same gender to marry. I'm sworn to uphold the Constitution, the laws of this state, as well as the ordinances of my city. Therefore, I'm fairly certain, "Keep them wanting marriage" would preclude me from such obligations.



Posted by: resqjyw0

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Originally Posted by Grasshopper View Post
"Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad, maybe one day they'll wake up and get their act straightened out."

As far as I know...It's legal in Massachusetts for two people of the same gender to marry. I'm sworn to uphold the Constitution, the laws of this state, as well as the ordinances of my city. Therefore, I'm fairly certain, "Keep them wanting marriage" would preclude me from such obligations.
No shit Sherlock. Make sure you put in for Detective ASAP. This thread was started on the overturning of a ban on gay marriage in CA, not MA. This is not an issue confined to just MA. And I am not bringing the job itself into this issue. Nowhere in any of my posts have I made any suggestions that I or anyone else against gay marriage should do their job differently when dealing with a homosexual. So what is the point you're trying to make again?



Posted by: Grasshopper

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No shit Sherlock. Make sure you put in for Detective ASAP. This thread was started on the overturning of a ban on gay marriage in CA, not MA. This is not an issue confined to just MA. And I am not bringing the job itself into this issue. Nowhere in any of my posts have I made any suggestions that I or anyone else against gay marriage should do their job differently when dealing with a homosexual. So what is the point you're trying to make again?
My only point was that even if I wanted to "Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad", I couldn't nor should I.

It's legal here and it's legal in California, as it should be. I don't want someone telling me I can't marry outside of my race because it's against the Bible (still a widely held belief). I wouldn't even want someone telling me I can't marry a man because I'm straight. No human being should be able to tell another human being whom he or she could marry (as long as that other person gives consent and is able to give consent). I said "whom". An animal could never give consent to marriage. To presuppose that homosexual marriage would lead to bestiality is so incredulous of a statement to make (yet it has been made before with mixing of the races or ethnicities and even religions).



Posted by: resqjyw0

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My only point was that even if I wanted to "Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad", I couldn't nor should I.
Ok, but don't try hiding behind your job as a defense. I don't agree with the gun laws of this state, but I still abide by them and when the time comes I do have to enforce them.

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It's legal here and it's legal in California, as it should be. I don't want someone telling me I can't marry outside of my race because it's against the Bible (still a widely held belief). I wouldn't even want someone telling me I can't marry a man because I'm straight.
I honestly can't imagine how anyone can condone something that is as unnatural as homosexual relationships...unless they are as cognitively screwed up as those they are condoning. Homosexuals need help, not excuses.

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No human being should be able to tell another human being whom he or she could marry (as long as that other person gives consent and is able to give consent). I said "whom". An animal could never give consent to marriage. To presuppose that homosexual marriage would lead to bestiality is so incredulous of a statement to make (yet it has been made before with mixing of the races or ethnicities and even religions).
Here we go again with you bringing irrelavent crap to the table. Who said anyting about bestiality?



Posted by: kwflatbed

More idiotic responses from the world famous Grasshopper,it sounds like she would be a good candidate to join the gay by the bay pd.

"It's legal here and it's legal in California, as it should be"

"No human being should be able to tell another human being whom he or she could marry"

"As far as I know...It's legal in Massachusetts for two people of the same gender to marry"

This is from someone who is always claiming she is coming from or going to Mass, we can see that she really believes in the teachings of her church .

Her Pope would love to hear this.



Posted by: resqjyw0



Awesome post, Harry!!



Posted by: masscopguy

Mr. Resqjw0 I don't wish to climb into the gutter with you and answer everyone of your twisted comments. Thankfully, Grasshopper has done a nice job of destroying your flawed arguments.

I will say that if you are Cop and was off on a call that involved people who you believed to be Gay they would be treated quite differently.

My experience has taught me that people like yourself who suffer from severe homophobia are generally insecure about their own sexuality and are trying to compensate for a lack of something in their make-up.

There is not one reputable medical association that considers homosexuality a psychological disorder, not the AMA or APA or the APS. But I guess you would say they are all liberals.

If homosexuality is such a major crime against God, why is it only briefly mentioned once if the Bible and how come Jesus never addressed it?

Why do four of the major main line Protestant churches now have openly Gay ministers, as does the Reform and Conservative Jewish movements?

30 years from now we are going to look back and say, Do you remember that at one time two people of the same sex couldn't enter into civil marriage?
The same way we find it hard to believe that at one time women didn't have the right to vote or a black man couldn't sit at the same lunch counter as a white man.

50% of the marriages in America ( the figure is lower in Ma) end in divorce. So how can you say that the institution is really working?

Finally, if you have a major opposition to marriage equality,I suggest you don't enter into a same sex relationship with a partner you may wish to marry at some point, that way you will never be effected by Gay marriage.



Posted by: MM1799

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So you're saying we should support someone's psychological disorder that goes against nature by being homosexual all because of inalienable rights? Oh, so someone is as thin as a rail but still thinks their fat. They have an eating disorder by being anorexic. We should support their disorder because of their inalienable right to pursue happiness?
Well being anoxeric is dangerous to ones health and could lead to death. Being gay, as far as I know, doesn't affect ones health or cause untimely death.
As I said before, if they are citizens of this country then I cant stand up and deny them any rights that are afforded to me and my friends because we aren't gay.
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We're not prohibiting them from freedom of speech. They can still express their homosexuality. Give them civil unions if they need some legal way of expressing their love. Keep them wanting marriage. If they want it so bad, maybe one day they'll wake up and get their act straightened out.
But, you are prohibiting them from something that is accessable to any other citizen in this country. If you prohibit a specific group from something available to everyone else then it's discrimination. You can read my previous posts, I am not a flaming liberal nor do I scream discrimination for anything. But excluded someone for being black, white, gay, straight, male, female; is quite simply discrimination.

I respect you and your opinions resqjyw0. Clearly we have different opinions (welcome to America)
I am not going to bring anything professional into it. You are a cop and that is enough for me to not question your integrity or you personally.
I enjoy debating but I dont want this to become a shit-sling match and personal attacks.



Posted by: resqjyw0

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Mr. Resqjw0 I don't wish to climb into the gutter with you and answer everyone of your twisted comments. Thankfully, Grasshopper has done a nice job of destroying your flawed arguments.
Nice job at destroying my "flawed" arguements? She hid behind her profession and she raised irrelevent issues...that is what you consider destroying someone's arguements? You are the perfect example for kids as to why they should stay in school.

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I will say that if you are Cop and was off on a call that involved people who you believed to be Gay they would be treated quite differently.
I am getting pretty sick of your unfounded statements accusing me of being prejudice in my actions on the job. Maybe if you took that cock out of your mouth, you could breathe and get some oxygen to your brain.

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My experience has taught me that people like yourself who suffer from severe homophobia are generally insecure about their own sexuality and are trying to compensate for a lack of something in their make-up.
People generally turn gay because they either A. can't accept differences between a man and a woman or B. suck at life and can't get a member of the opposite sex to stay with them; but they need to be loved so they compensate by engaging in relations with someone in the same boat.

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There is not one reputable medical association that considers homosexuality a psychological disorder, not the AMA or APA or the APS. But I guess you would say they are all liberals.
Disorder: condition in which there is a disturbance of normal functioning.

Normal functioning would be being attracted to the opposite sex. Since homosexuals have deviated from that normal cognitive function, they are in disorder.

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If homosexuality is such a major crime against God, why is it only briefly mentioned once if the Bible and how come Jesus never addressed it?
Back then, the issue wasn't what it is today.

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Why do four of the major main line Protestant churches now have openly Gay ministers, as does the Reform and Conservative Jewish movements?
Because their cognitive functioning is in disorder.

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30 years from now we are going to look back and say, Do you remember that at one time two people of the same sex couldn't enter into civil marriage?
The same way we find it hard to believe that at one time women didn't have the right to vote or a black man couldn't sit at the same lunch counter as a white man.
30 years from now I am going to look back and say, do you remember when the deterioration of this country started gaining momentum?

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50% of the marriages in America ( the figure is lower in Ma) end in divorce. So how can you say that the institution is really working?
I'm sure a great deal of those divorces are attributed to the fallout of drugs, alcohol and/or violence not because they are heterosexual...

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Finally, if you have a major opposition to marriage equality,I suggest you don't enter into a same sex relationship with a partner you may wish to marry at some point, that way you will never be effected by Gay marriage.
I can promise you I won't. I am not that insecure about myself.

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I respect you and your opinions resqjyw0. Clearly we have different opinions (welcome to America)
I am not going to bring anything professional into it. You are a cop and that is enough for me to not question your integrity or you personally.
I enjoy debating but I dont want this to become a shit-sling match and personal attacks.
Likewise.



Posted by: PaulKersey

Re: California Supreme Court overturns gay marriage ban
[quote=masscopguy;288497]

My experience has taught me that people like yourself who suffer from severe homophobia are generally insecure about their own sexuality and are trying to compensate for a lack of something in their make-up.

No, it's just that some of us are tired of watching this country go down the tubes. They worry about what kind of screwed up world their kids will have to live in.

If homosexuality is such a major crime against God, why is it only briefly mentioned once if the Bible and how come Jesus never addressed it?

Actually, it's mentioned numerous times. Jesus didn't have to mention it again because it was already mentioned numerous times. It was a given, as it was so unnatural. He didn't mention child molestation, rape, or incest either, but that doesn't make them right. Jesus did say that God created people "in the beginning" as male and female, and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman joined together as "one flesh". Nothing is said about any other type of union. He used the destruction of the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah as an example of God's wrath . Throughout the Old Testament, prophets clearly described these cities as being notorious for the practice of homosexuality.

Why do four of the major main line Protestant churches now have openly Gay ministers, as does the Reform and Conservative Jewish movements?

They're not real men of God. Just like the Catholic priests involved in all the child molestation weren't real priests. They were child molesters dressed as priests. Just like the recent BPD cops recently sentenced this week. They were not real cops, just criminals in uniform.

30 years from now we are going to look back and say, Do you remember that at one time two people of the same sex couldn't enter into civil marriage?

This country will not make it 30 years.

50% of the marriages in America ( the figure is lower in Ma) end in divorce. So how can you say that the institution is really working?

That means 50% is working. That 50% is all we have left. Too bad even that {marriage} isn't sacred anymore.

It's not for the courts to decide. Let the people vote. What happened to the will of the people?

This isn't a personal attack on anyone, just my opinion on the subject of gay marriage. It's all I'm going to say.



Posted by: wlrysn365

[quote=PaulKersey;288516]

That means 50% is working. That 50% is all we have left. Too bad even that {marriage} isn't sacred anymore.

quote]
thats probably the smartest thing said all day



Posted by: resqjyw0

Well said Paul!



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
I will say that if you are Cop and was off on a call that involved people who you believed to be Gay they would be treated quite differently.

My experience has taught me that people like yourself who suffer from severe homophobia are generally insecure about their own sexuality and are trying to compensate for a lack of something in their make-up.
Are you saying that you treat homophobic people differently? in the case that you are.. would you treat transgender people different?

so if a chick with a dick walked up to you and grabed you, you wouldn't be insecure with that?

i swear you say the dumbest things i have ever heard along with grasshopper

well i guess we now know who the gays are



Posted by: resqjyw0

Quote:
Originally Posted by wlrysn365 View Post
Are you saying that you treat homophobic people differently?
He probably does. Obviously, since he is accusing me of being prejudice on the job then he must be prejudice in his decisions on the job. Sorry, I hold myself to a higher standard than what you hold yourself to, Masscopguy.



Posted by: kwflatbed

We are all going to be dragged down the tubes with the likes of the politicians and liberals changing the laws in this country to satisfy
the PC.

I guess if we have to support all of the homosexuals,then we have to support all of the pedophiles that are lurking in the shadows waiting to
abuse our kids. Mabey they should change the laws to make that legal also.

I would comment more but I would have to ban myself for the comments that I would have to make.



Posted by: resqjyw0

Quote:
Originally Posted by kwflatbed View Post
I would comment more but I would have to ban myself for the comments that I would have to make.


I can only imagine what you have built up inside of you. HAHAHA!



Posted by: masscopguy

The most recent posts by resgiyw0, Paul Kersey, Harry the truck driver and their friends are so twisted, I am not going to dignify them with comment.
Mr. Resgiyw0 since you are only able to debate based on baseless assertions and fact less statements, I find it impossible to engage in an intelligent discussion on this topic.


I am glad to hear that you seem to be able to place his severe homophobia in the glove compartment when working. You are a true professional, my friend.

Fortunately, I have found that most people who don't let something that was written 2000 years ago and translated thousands of times, doing their thinking for them, could care less about Gay issiues especially Gay marriage.



Posted by: resqjyw0

You must be twisted if you believe that homosexuality isn't a disorder. If that's the case then ADD can't be a disorder.



Posted by: masscopguy

It is a disorder because you say so, OK. You are entitled to your opinion, but I repeat there is not one reputable medical association including the American Medical Association, The American Psychiatric Society or any of the leading Physiological groups defines homosexuality as a disorder. Your medical training is in?

Please don’t come back to me with the definition of normal.

Probably the most ignorant statement you made was “ people turn gay” followed by the reasons. Please share with me where you came up with these conclusions? You seem to have spent a lot of time thinking about this and present yourself as somewhat of an expert on the subject. Can you tell me what the term Gay stands for or its history, in other words, how did the word GAY come to be used by homosexuals.

Trust me my friend, people don’t “turn” Gay they are born Gay. Faced with discrimination, bigotry, the social stigma and the prospect of having to deal with people like yourself, who harbor pre-historic thinking, some choose to stay in the closet or worse pretend to lead a heterosexual life. Some realize they have been living a lie and come out.


You can’t argue against marriage equality based on economic issues, or how is effects your marriage or anyone else’s. When incest, polygamy, pedophilia, (which is a crime committed predominantly by heterosexual men) and bestiality, is brought into the argument it shows how bankrupt your argument is.

If your church doesn’t wish to marry same sex couples, fine. I wouldn’t want to be married in a Catholic Church for example, anyway. There are many fine churches that recognize we are all Gods children and have been created in his image, Gay or strait. If you are against Gay marriage fine, don’t get married to another man. But don’t dare deny me the right to go down to City Hall and exercise my basic civil rights.

Case Closed.



Posted by: kwflatbed

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
But don’t dare deny me the right to go down to City Hall and exercise my basic civil rights.Case Closed.
So take your friends from G.O.A.L.N.E. and make the trip to city hall,
and be sure to alert the media.



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
Probably the most ignorant statement you made was “ people turn gay” followed by the reasons.
your most ignorant statement is: everything you have said in the last 2 days.
So i thank you for wasting our time reading your gay statements

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
Can you tell me what the term Gay stands for or its history, in other words, how did the word GAY come to be used by homosexuals.

Trust me my friend, people don’t “turn” Gay they are born Gay. Faced with discrimination, bigotry, the social stigma and the prospect of having to deal with people like yourself, who harbor pre-historic thinking, some choose to stay in the closet or worse pretend to lead a heterosexual life. Some realize they have been living a lie and come out.
well the term probably changed when two guys were happy boning each other in the ass.
so they're born gay huh.. what about the bisexuals are they just confused?
so you can never be straight again... thats what your telling us right?
Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
. I wouldn’t want to be married in a Catholic Church Gay or strait. If you are against Gay marriage fine, don’t get married to another man. But don’t dare deny me the right to go down to City Hall and exercise my basic civil rights.
so you are gay.. you give the term crooked cop a whole nother meaning.

just a quick question
the word fag mean cigarette how did that turn into a gay guy?



Posted by: masscopguy

Quote:
Originally Posted by kwflatbed View Post
So take your friends from G.O.A.L.N.E. and make the trip to city hall,
and be sure to alert the media.
Thanks Harry, we will, but we don't need your permission.

BTW, The GOAL-NE Blue and Gold party in Ogunquit is coming up. I have an extra ticket, would you care to join me? I bet the guys would love to hear your old trucker stories. Or maybe you would like to join us for Gay Pride on June 14th that flatbed would make a nice float.

God Bless America!



Posted by: kwflatbed

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
Thanks Harry, we will, but we don't need your permission.

BTW, The GOAL-NE Blue and Gold party in Ogunquit is coming up. I have an extra ticket, would you care to join me? I bet the guys would love to hear your old trucker stories. Or maybe you would like to join us for Gay Pride on June 14th that flatbed would make a nice float.

God Bless America!
I realy don't like smoking the pipe like you do,so I will decline on the party, but I would love to take a truck load of your group for a ride that you would never forget.

It might scare you straight LOL



Posted by: masscopguy

You you are to funny Harry! Such wit!

But, I don't think you could scare us. We have been dealing with your type most of our adult lives.
The men and woman of GOAL who are out and proud at work and include a Boston PD Deputy Super, an MBTA Police Sgt, A SCSD Lt. a former Municipal Police Chief and several Ma State Troopers are some of the bravest people I know.


Keep on trucking brother!

God Bless America



Posted by: wlrysn365

can you just go crawl under that rock again and STFU



Posted by: MM1799

Why dont you STFU. He is excersizing his freedom of speech and as far as I am concerned he's said a hell of a lot more intelligent things than you have. He talks about rights and freedoms. You talk about boning people and use petty insults to get your argument across.

You're pathetic.

I'm all for debate but you are just insulting and slinging well-known put-downs. Come back after you've graduated highschool.



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by MM1799 View Post
Why dont you STFU. He is excersizing his freedom of speech and as far as I am concerned he's said a hell of a lot more intelligent things than you have. He talks about rights and freedoms. You talk about boning people and use petty insults to get your argument across.
im homophobic what can i say



Posted by: Grasshopper

Quote:
Originally Posted by resqjyw0 View Post
Ok, but don't try hiding behind your job as a defense. I don't agree with the gun laws of this state, but I still abide by them and when the time comes I do have to enforce them.



I honestly can't imagine how anyone can condone something that is as unnatural as homosexual relationships...unless they are as cognitively screwed up as those they are condoning. Homosexuals need help, not excuses.



Here we go again with you bringing irrelavent crap to the table. Who said anyting about bestiality?
Mr. resqjyw0, "Here we go again with you bringing irrelavent crap to the table. Who said anyting about bestiality?" Someone DID say something about bestiality! PaulKersey in post #9?

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Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post
Says who?
How, or why, would it make for a better society? Because a certain group thinks it would?

What about the other group that believes in God and country, has traditional values, and knows what's been working since 1620? Some look at this relatively new {free for all, anything goes} attitude as destructive. Many believe it's tearing down the foundation that this country was built upon.

Look around. Tell me if this country is going in the right direction.

What's next? After all, anything goes, right?

That German Shepherd across the street is looking mighty fine.



"What's next? After all, anything goes, right? That German Shepherd across the street is looking mighty fine."

Homophobic comments such as these are getting a bit abhorrent

Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post
Re: California Supreme Court overturns gay marriage ban
[quote=masscopguy;288497]

My experience has taught me that people like yourself who suffer from severe homophobia are generally insecure about their own sexuality and are trying to compensate for a lack of something in their make-up.

No, it's just that some of us are tired of watching this country go down the tubes. They worry about what kind of screwed up world their kids will have to live in.

If homosexuality is such a major crime against God, why is it only briefly mentioned once if the Bible and how come Jesus never addressed it?

Actually, it's mentioned numerous times. Jesus didn't have to mention it again because it was already mentioned numerous times. It was a given, as it was so unnatural. He didn't mention child molestation, rape, or incest either, but that doesn't make them right. Jesus did say that God created people "in the beginning" as male and female, and that marriage is the union of one man and one woman joined together as "one flesh". Nothing is said about any other type of union. He used the destruction of the cities of Sodom and Gomorrah as an example of God's wrath . Throughout the Old Testament, prophets clearly described these cities as being notorious for the practice of homosexuality.

Why do four of the major main line Protestant churches now have openly Gay ministers, as does the Reform and Conservative Jewish movements?

They're not real men of God. Just like the Catholic priests involved in all the child molestation weren't real priests. They were child molesters dressed as priests. Just like the recent BPD cops recently sentenced this week. They were not real cops, just criminals in uniform.

30 years from now we are going to look back and say, Do you remember that at one time two people of the same sex couldn't enter into civil marriage?

This country will not make it 30 years.

50% of the marriages in America ( the figure is lower in Ma) end in divorce. So how can you say that the institution is really working?

That means 50% is working. That 50% is all we have left. Too bad even that {marriage} isn't sacred anymore.

It's not for the courts to decide. Let the people vote. What happened to the will of the people?

This isn't a personal attack on anyone, just my opinion on the subject of gay marriage. It's all I'm going to say.
FYI Jesus DID address the topic of child abuse in the Bible although he did not mention homosexuality. I would be careful making "exact quotes out of the Bible. Ever hear of midrash? Did you know the Bible wasn't just sent down as one book? It's a copulation of chosen writings from Greek, Latin, Aramaic, Hebrew et al. that have been translated over and over and over.

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Originally Posted by kwflatbed View Post
More idiotic responses from the world famous Grasshopper,it sounds like she would be a good candidate to join the gay by the bay pd.

"It's legal here and it's legal in California, as it should be"

"No human being should be able to tell another human being whom he or she could marry"

"As far as I know...It's legal in Massachusetts for two people of the same gender to marry"

This is from someone who is always claiming she is coming from or going to Mass, we can see that she really believes in the teachings of her church .

Her Pope would love to hear this.
Harry, I do believe in the teachings of my church very profoundly and I do my best to live up top such teachings that we all fall short of! I do not however, impose my beliefs upon others! I don't want my state in my church and inversely I don't want my church in my state either. Wasn't that one of the reasons we had broken off from the crown of England? Do you want a fundamental theocracy? Do you want the Christian version of Islamic-Fascism?



Posted by: wlrysn365

get back on the boat and go back to where you came from and give our land back! dirty theives



Posted by: PaulKersey

[quote=Grasshopper;288811]
FYI Jesus DID address the topic of child abuse in the Bible although he did not mention homosexuality. I would be careful making "exact quotes out of the Bible.?[/quote]

I said child molestation, not child abuse, and I'm very careful making quotes.


Have you made your first arrest yet, or are you already shift commander?



Posted by: Grasshopper

Quote:
Originally Posted by wlrysn365 View Post
get back on the boat and go back to where you came from and give our land back! dirty theives
I don't know about you but I was born and raised here.

Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post
[quote=Grasshopper;288811]
FYI Jesus DID address the topic of child abuse in the Bible although he did not mention homosexuality. I would be careful making "exact quotes out of the Bible.?


I said child molestation, not child abuse, and I'm very careful making quotes.


Have you made your first arrest yet, or are you already shift commander?[/quote]
So, you don't consider consider child molestation under the category of child abuse?

Yeah, my first arrest was about a half a year ago.

No, I'm not a shift commander I'm just a lowly patrolman and I love every minute of it!



Posted by: kwflatbed

Bible Quotes:

There are those who like to say that the Bible does not condemn homosexuality. Various verses are cited (out of context) and the verses that people use to show that homosexuality is wrong are explained away. The world wants to change God's words and meanings into something more suitable to its sinful desires. Nevertheless, the truth stands: The Bible condemns homosexuality as a sin. Let's look at what it says.
Lev. 18:22, "You shall not lie with a male as one lies with a female; it is an abomination."

Lev. 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them"

1 Cor. 6:9-10, "Or do you not know that the unrighteous shall not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived; neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor effeminate, nor homosexuals, 10nor thieves, nor the covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor swindlers, shall inherit the kingdom of God."

Rom. 1:26-28, "For this reason God gave them over to degrading passions; for their women exchanged the natural function for that which is unnatural, 27and in the same way also the men abandoned the natural function of the woman and burned in their desire toward one another, men with men committing indecent acts and receiving in their own persons the due penalty of their error. 28And just as they did not see fit to acknowledge God any longer, God gave them over to a depraved mind, to do those things which are not proper."


http://www.carm.org/questions/homosexuality.htm






Posted by: PaulKersey

Quote:
Originally Posted by Grasshopper View Post
I'm just a lowly patrolman


Now I know why you're so confused.



Posted by: resqjyw0

Quote:
Originally Posted by kwflatbed View Post
Lev. 20:13, "If there is a man who lies with a male as those who lie with a woman, both of them have committed a detestable act; they shall surely be put to death. Their bloodguiltness is upon them"
Amen.



Posted by: Loyal

who cares if someone is gay ? why do you care ? how does their personal life affect your's ? I couldn't care less about their preferences as long as they are honest, responsible and considerate.
I, and probably many of you, have worked with gay people and didn't realize their orientation until it was mentioned by someone . Didn't change my opinion of them.
Liberals, on the other hand, suck. They DO interfere with your life with confiscatory high taxes, reverse discrimination, etc, etc...



Posted by: Grasshopper

Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post

Now I know why you're so confused.
If I say I am a patrolMAN I am confused? Really? Then how would you explain the word woMAN?

Quote:
Originally Posted by Loyal View Post
who cares if someone is gay ? why do you care ? how does their personal life affect your's ? I couldn't care less about their preferences as long as they are honest, responsible and considerate.
I, and probably many of you, have worked with gay people and didn't realize their orientation until it was mentioned by someone . Didn't change my opinion of them.
Liberals, on the other hand, suck. They DO interfere with your life with confiscatory high taxes, reverse discrimination, etc, etc...
+ 1

As usual...well said Loyal!!!



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by PaulKersey View Post

Now I know why you're so confused.




Posted by: MM1799

You want the United States of America to allow the Bible to dictate politics and the freedom in which we hold so dearly? Fair enough.

What do you say about Saudi Arabia, Iran, Syria, Jordan and the other Middle Eastern countries which use the Quran to dictate life and is used as their rule of law. Do you agree with that? Women should be covered. You cannot say or do anything that is offensive to their prophet: Mohammad (sp). People are still put to death in rather sick, medieval ways (stoning) and have no rights to a fair trial.

How is that any different?



Posted by: Grasshopper

Quote:
Originally Posted by MM1799 View Post
You want the United States of America to allow the Bible to dictate politics and the freedom in which we hold so dearly? Fair enough.

What do you say about Saudi Arabia, Iran, Syria, Jordan and the other Middle Eastern countries which use the Quran to dictate life and is used as their rule of law. Do you agree with that? Women should be covered. You cannot say or do anything that is offensive to their prophet: Mohammad (sp). People are still put to death in rather sick, medieval ways (stoning) and have no rights to a fair trial.

How is that any different?
+1

Or even in a communist society in which worshiping God is either illegal or only permitted when done how, when, where and within what government sanctioned institutions, do we really want that? Do we really want to revert back to the Massachusetts Bay Colony where "insufficiently Christian" men were not granted citizenship?



Posted by: resqjyw0

Why couldn't God just make us asexual so we could just do ourselves... that way I would have an extra rib and life would be so much simpler.



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by MM1799 View Post
You want the United States of America to allow the Bible to dictate politics and the freedom in which we hold so dearly? Fair enough.

What do you say about Saudi Arabia, Iran, Syria, Jordan and the other Middle Eastern countries which use the Quran to dictate life and is used as their rule of law. Do you agree with that? Women should be covered. You cannot say or do anything that is offensive to their prophet: Mohammad (sp). People are still put to death in rather sick, medieval ways (stoning) and have no rights to a fair trial.

How is that any different?
you ovb have no idea what the Quran says do you?

are you really in a place to talk about muslims if so heres the link to terrorists and the muslim culture. http://www.masscops.com/forums/showt...hlight=muslims

and those countries most practice islam!

and BTW It's still against their religon to fornicate with another guy! or F*ck aother guy in the ass!



Posted by: masscopguy

Mr. Flatbed,

While you have your good book out, could you share with us the passage in Deuteronomy that condones polygamy? I would, but I leave my bible in the car, so I can read it while waiting in Burger King Drive Thru.

Leviticus also justifies slavery and calls for the execution of anyone who works on the Sabbath. I guess you have never driven your truck on a Sunday.

Leviticus also calls eating shellfish an abomination in the eyes of God. I guess a night out at Legal Sea Foods and being gay are equally offensive to God.

Do you pick and choose which bible versus you follow in order to justify your narrow-minded thought process?

The literal interpretation of any religious dogma has done more harm than anything else knows to mankind.

Keep on trucking brother!

God Bless America!



Posted by: resqjyw0

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
The literal interpretation of any religious dogma has done more harm than anything else knows to mankind.
How about this literal interpretation...dick + pussy = the way things were meant to be.



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by resqjyw0 View Post
How about this literal interpretation...dick + pussy = the way things were meant to be.
ROTFLMAO



Posted by: resqjyw0

A Different Time

Why gay marriage won't pack such a punch in Campaign 2008

By Karen Breslau | Newsweek Web Exclusive
May 16, 2008 | Updated: 1:13 p.m. ET May 16, 2008

As he savored Thursday's historic decision by the California Supreme Court legalizing same-sex marriage, San Francisco Mayor Gavin Newsom couldn't resist gloating. "As California goes, so goes the nation," he said, wagging his finger in the air as he stood on the same city hall staircase where thousands of same-sex couples wed four years ago. "It's inevitable," Newsom grinned. "The door's wide open now. It's going to happen, whether you like it or not. This is the future, and it's now."

In 2004, when the mayor ordered the city to start issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples in a deliberate violation of California law, provoking the court challenge that led to Thursday's state Supreme Court ruling, even fellow Democrats criticized him for giving conservatives a cudgel to use against John Kerry in the 2004 presidential election. In that election year, 13 states had "defense of marriage" acts, defining the relationship as a union between a man and a woman, on the ballot. The Supreme Court of Massachusetts had legalized gay marriage. Pictures of same-sex couples smooching in San Francisco were in fact a powerful get-out-the-vote tool for socially conservative voters, who propelled the anti-gay marriage measures to victory in all 13 states, and helped bolster George W. Bush's re-election campaign.

But 2008 isn't 2004. Even though opponents of gay marriage in California vow to fight on—a measure to amend the state constitution to ban same-sex marriage is likely to be on the ballot this November—the issue is unlikely to pack the same punch as it did only four years ago. Here's why:

1. The country has moved—and so have the candidates. Even though a majority of Americans (56 per cent, according to a Gallup poll last week) oppose gay marriage, public opinion is shifting, especially when it comes to conferring equal rights to same-sex couples by granting civil unions. Barack Obama and Hillary Clinton oppose gay marriage but approve of civil unions. John McCain opposes both, but also says he opposes discrimination. All three oppose a federal amendment to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman (although McCain did support a similar measure in Arizona, citing his belief that marriage is a state issue, not a federal one.) As couples flock to California to get married, even more Americans will be exposed to the "lived experience" of same-sex couples and families, says Evan Wolfson, of the Freedom to Marry project, an advocacy group. "It's much easier to whip people up over the hypothetical." Even Dick Cheney, no liberal, is the grandfather of a child born to a same-sex couple.

2. John McCain's heart isn't in it. The presumptive Republican nominee put out a statement affirming his belief that marriage should be between a man and a woman, and for good measure, he chided the California Supreme Court for overstepping its bounds. "John McCain doesn't believe judges should be making these decisions," his campaign said. McCain has always couched his position on same-sex marriage in terms of states' rights. But McCain watchers say it's more important that the candidate didn't mention the California decision—or his own position on gay marriage—in a major speech he gave the same day outlining his presidential agenda. "His heart's not in it," says one informal adviser to McCain, not authorized to speak for his campaign, of the battle over gay marriage. McCain is no favorite of social conservatives and is playing for independents in the fall. While the issue may help him gain traction with some on the religious right, it's unlikely that agreement on gay marriage alone will be enough to mobilize conservative voters who are wary of McCain's maverick streak on social issues. Besides, does he really want to contradict his No. 1 Republican backer in California, Gov. Arnold Schwarzenegger, who said on Thursday that he plans to uphold the court's decision and will oppose a likely ballot initiative this fall to amend the California constitution in order to define marriage as a union between a man and a woman?

3. Voters care more about other issues. Jobs. Mortgages. The war. Gas prices. In 2008, only a few states—California, Florida and Arizona—are expected to have marriage-related measures on the ballot. In 2004, 13 states voted on such measures (all passed.) Opponents of same-sex marriage say even though they lost a big court case, the voters are on their side. (27 of 28 defense-of-marriage measures have passed since 2004). "When voters have the chance to vote, they overwhelmingly support the traditional definition of marriage," says Glenn Lavy of the Alliance Defense Fund, one of the groups that argued unsuccessfully before the California Supreme Court. But proponents of same-sex marriage say voter sentiment is not their biggest concern. "The number of voters who plan to cast their vote for president on this issue is miniscule," says Wolfson.

4. It's not a partisan fight. Six of the seven California Supreme Court justices were appointed by conservative Republican governors. The court invoked a 1948 California ruling lifting the ban on interracial marriage (one the U.S. Supreme Court did not follow until 1967), as a basis for its ruling. While the court was split, 4-3, California Chief Justice Ronald George, a Republican appointee, wrote the majority opinion, declaring the state's Constitution protects "the right of the individual to establish a legally recognized family with the person of one's choice." He said the Constitution "properly must be interpreted to guarantee this basic civil right to all Californians, whether gay or heterosexual, and to same-sex couples as well as opposite-sex couples."

http://www.newsweek.com/id/137302



Posted by: Grasshopper

Quote:
Originally Posted by wlrysn365 View Post
Are you saying that you treat homophobic people differently? in the case that you are.. would you treat transgender people different?

so if a chick with a dick walked up to you and grabed you, you wouldn't be insecure with that?

i swear you say the dumbest things i have ever heard along with grasshopper

well i guess we now know who the gays are
"well i guess we now know who the gays are"

GayS? Would that be me? I've been married to an incredible man for about a year and a half now (had been dating him for over 6 years prior to that). Or would that be MM1799?MM1799 said in another post that he had a 15 year marriage...unless it was in Vermont (or someplace else that allowed gay marriage at the time) or if it's not legally recognized then he would be to a woman. So if you defend the rights of the GBLT community, that means your gay as well? I'm fine with that I could think of worse company.

I think the only openly gay person to speak here is masscopguy and that gentlemen, takes more guts than you could possibly comprehend!

Oh, resqjyw0... hiding behind my job or my badge? If you knew me at all you'd know I hide behind nothing!

Quote:
Originally Posted by masscopguy View Post
You you are to funny Harry! Such wit!

But, I don't think you could scare us. We have been dealing with your type most of our adult lives.
The men and woman of GOAL who are out and proud at work and include a Boston PD Deputy Super, an MBTA Police Sgt, A SCSD Lt. a former Municipal Police Chief and several Ma State Troopers are some of the bravest people I know.


Keep on trucking brother!

God Bless America
One of my Deputy Superintendents??? No way!!! I love my department more and more each minute!



Posted by: wlrysn365

Quote:
Originally Posted by Grasshopper View Post
GayS? Would that be me? I've been married to an incredible man for about a year and a half now (had been dating him for over 6 years prior to that).
I think you would be classified as a lesbiean if you were homosexual



Posted by: resqjyw0

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Originally Posted by Grasshopper View Post
Oh, resqjyw0... hiding behind my job or my badge? If you knew me at all you'd know I hide behind nothing!
Here are your own words.

"I'm sworn to uphold the Constitution, the laws of this state, as well as the ordinances of my city. Therefore, I'm fairly certain, "Keep them wanting marriage" would preclude me from such obligations."

Now did you really spend all that money at that #1 college?



Posted by: masscopguy

Just a few more bible pages from Harry's web link.

Exodus 20:14 prohibits divorce. So I guess if any of you guys get a divorce you will be burning in hell. Cops have the second highest divorce rate of any profession.

Duet: 24 says only a man can divorce his wife. So I guess if your wife divorced you, you both committed a grave sin.

Polygamy is also provided for in Genesis.

Harry's web link also says only those who practice Christianity are going upstairs. The Catholic Church stopped preaching that there was no salvation outside the church more than 50 years ago. I guess all the God fearing Jews are out of luck.

I point all this out to show how totally absurd it is to literally follow something that was written by who knows who 2000 years ago.



Posted by: screamineagle

anyone who visits this site who is not a fan of police is going to thoroughly enjoy this thread.



Posted by: Grasshopper

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Originally Posted by resqjyw0 View Post
Here are your own words.

"I'm sworn to uphold the Constitution, the laws of this state, as well as the ordinances of my city. Therefore, I'm fairly certain, "Keep them wanting marriage" would preclude me from such obligations."

Now did you really spend all that money at that #1 college?
That's what you call hiding behind my badge or my job. You obviously, really know nothing about how I work.

Yes, I really did spend all that money on that #1 school (put myself through and continue to put myself through paying the remainder of my loans). Since you have brought that up... guess what? If I'm blessed enough to have children...do you know what one major factor college admissions look at when deciding to admit a student?The answer would be...the degrees the parents attained and from where. Do you know how many doors I may have already opened for any children I might have before they are even born?

You're more than welcome to make anymore insults since you seem to have a problem with my views. Please feel free.



Posted by: Hb13

Wow.
On a different note I think rockmurth is lurking again.



Posted by: resqjyw0

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That's what you call hiding behind my badge or my job. You obviously, really know nothing about how I work.
Yes. You were using it as an excuse for your position...

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Since you have brought that up... guess what? If I'm blessed enough to have children...do you know what one major factor college admissions look at when deciding to admit a student?The answer would be...the degrees the parents attained and from where. Do you know how many doors I may have already opened for any children I might have before they are even born?
Who gives a flying fuck? You're paying more money for more headaches and for a degree that will get you a job that could have been had with a degree from a school that costs a lot less. It also turns people into pompous assholes like yourself.

If you ever get killed in the line of duty, it won't mean shit where you got your degree from because your kids could go to a state school for free. Who would pass that up?



Posted by: wlrysn365

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If you ever get killed in the line of duty, it won't mean shit where you got your degree from because your kids could go to a state school for free. Who would pass that up?
ROTFLMAO



Posted by: screamineagle

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ROTFLMAO

your avatar is seriously crossing the line.



Posted by: Hb13

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your avatar is seriously crossing the line.
+1
Wrlysn365 You need to straighten yourself out as well, some of your comments have been crossing too.



Posted by: wlrysn365

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Originally Posted by screamineagle View Post
your avatar is seriously crossing the line.
Hows this one?

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Wrlysn365 You need to straighten yourself out as well, some of your comments have been crossing too.
This whole thread is crossing the line!



Posted by: Hb13

Some of your comments were above and beyond.



Posted by: wlrysn365

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Some of your comments were above and beyond.
how are you singling me out just becuase i state the truth doesn't mean that my comments are wrong!



Posted by: MM1799

An avatar (since removed) with the picture of those idiots who protest soldiers' funerals -- you're a fucking class act, clown.

Onto your semi-retarded post:
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are you really in a place to talk about muslims if so heres the link to terrorists and the muslim culture.
No, if you had any intelligence you'd realize I was making a comparison while still addressing gay marriage. Try to keep up.

I actually feel bad for resqjyw0 and Harry that you are on their "side". You ruin their arguments with your posts, thanks.



Posted by: Hb13

MM1799 is right too
My main reason is because any member of the public can come on this forum read your statements and say "Wow look at that one he seems to be a real jackass" Therefore further causing us to all look like a bunch of jackasses.
I never said I agreed or disagreed with your comments just what you posted was not necessary.



Posted by: 5-0

Too be honest, the debate doesn't even begin with Gay Marriage. I could give a flying F what two consenting adults do. I can also tell you that I don't recognize yours or anyone else's gay marriage (unless It's to lock someone up for AB Dom), but that's not your problem.

The real problem that I have, and any self-respecting voter should have, is that you could not get any closer to circumventing the constitution than they did here in Mass. Legislating from the bench is WRONG. As a conservative voter, I would have supported any measure that gave whoever equal civil rights. I don't care if you want health insurance for the dude you live with. I do have a problem with courts in Assachusetts writing laws from the bench.

I do have a problem with the gay agenda looking beyond equality by going after the term marriage. I also blame the state for social engineering by getting involved in marriage in the first place. The LESS government involvement and incentive for human behavior, the better. In my humble opinion.

edit: I also vote that this thread gets locked soon. It's going nowhere.



Posted by: Hb13

I agree with everything 5-0 says.



Posted by: Wolfman