| "She has been uncomfortable around guns, and the fear that something accidental might happen. |
| She would prefer them not to be around our children just in case something did happen. |
| Not to mention she does not want our kids feeling so comfortable seeing guns when they are not being used for work. She worries that having that perception might make them feel that its okay to touch them or use them when not working. She wants our kids to think about guns as a tool for when dad goes to work not as something we just carry around for fun" |
| Originally Posted by Upandcoming I know this topic has been discussed before but I just had a conversation with my wife about carrying off duty. |
| HER SIDE: "She has been uncomfortable around guns, and the fear that something accidental might happen. |
| She would prefer them not to be around our children just in case something did happen. |
| Not to mention she does not want our kids feeling so comfortable seeing guns when they are not being used for work. She worries that having that perception might make them feel that its okay to touch them or use them when not working. |
| She wants our kids to think about guns as a tool for when dad goes to work not as something we just carry around for fun" |
| Originally Posted by NEPS On duty I will rush to protect total strangers (or even people I do not particularly care for), am willing to face actual or potential armed challenges in doing so, and carry a gun for that purpose. . . Off duty how can I not carry that tool to protect the people I do care about? |
| Originally Posted by kttref All the things said thus far have been great and informative...but I have a few issues with off-duty weapons myself. I have one, and carry it most places...BUT it's hard to wear/conceal with female clothing...which is why I don't wear it all the time. |
| Originally Posted by id1811xecj I am at a xsimilar point in my thinking. On duty, even as a fed, I am expected to act. Off duty, I will act to defend myself, my family, children, and, under more limited circumstances, "normal" women, ie not crack whores or women getting pummeled because they riled up their parolee boyfriend. |
| Originally Posted by Wolfman I have yet to meet someone who can't conceal a S&W J-frame somewhere discreetly. Even a small .22 auto can take the wind out of an attacker's sails pretty fast, especially when he thinks he's preying on a defenseless woman. One round is always better than none. |
| Originally Posted by soup If you are out of your jurisdiction and a felony, ie: abdw, why wouldn't you act? I do not carry off duty. |
| Originally Posted by kttref Problem is, to carry off duty we have to qualify on a pretty difficult course. We are only allowed to carry 9, 40, 45's. I have a Glock 26 (9)...which I get crap for because it's a "girly" gun...like you said, "one round is always better than none." |
| Originally Posted by Wolfman I forgot you're not in MA - do you only carry under the badge or do you have a regular license to carry as well? Seems that as a private citizen, with a pistol permit or other CCW you could carry whatever you see fit to use for personal protection while off the clock. |
| Originally Posted by Killjoy Great post, Wolf. KT! KT, my Class A LTC says "All Lawful Purposes", not "All Lawful Purposes with your duty firearm". Your Chief could no more regulate what you carry on your own time any more than he could tell what kind of POV to drive. So-called "off-duty qualification" is nothing more than legal insulation for departments, not the letter of the law. |
| Originally Posted by kttref I have a pistol permit, and HR 218...I can carry anywhere anytime...but we have some people in my department who have set it up that if you have a backup weapon or an off duty weapon you MUST qualify. No option. I'm not sure what the reasoning is, and I don't ask - being as I've only been on a little over 2 years I don't ask questions in regards to too many policies...I'd rather not ruffle too many feathers yet...so I do what I'm told. |
| Originally Posted by kttref I have a Glock 26 (9)...which I get crap for because it's a "girly" gun...like you said, "one round is always better than none." |
| Originally Posted by kttref I have a pistol permit, and HR 218...I can carry anywhere anytime...but we have some people in my department who have set it up that if you have a backup weapon or an off duty weapon you MUST qualify. No option. I'm not sure what the reasoning is, and I don't ask - being as I've only been on a little over 2 years I don't ask questions in regards to too many policies...I'd rather not ruffle too many feathers yet...so I do what I'm told. You are most likely correct in the "legal insulation" comment...but, like I said, I try not to ruffle too many feathers. Let me get like 5 years on before I start "fighting the man" |
| Originally Posted by soup But if under HR218 you are required to have a police ID and Badge, and you are using them to carry anywhere/anytime, then the chief can control what you are carrying, can't he/she? |
| Originally Posted by kttref Problem is, to carry off duty we have to qualify on a pretty difficult course. We are only allowed to carry 9, 40, 45's. I have a Glock 26 (9)...which I get crap for because it's a "girly" gun...like you said, "one round is always better than none." |
| Originally Posted by screamineagle I told my uncle (retired SEAL) that nine mm were girly guns. (SEALS carry sig P226 9mm). He told me " tell me how girly it is when I put two rounds in your chest and one in your head." nuff said. |
| Originally Posted by kttref You guys all make valid points. In fact, this is one of the best conversations we've had on this board in awhile! |
| Originally Posted by Kem25 To all those people who say "Sometimes it is better to be a good witness" would you not jump into a situation were a fellow officer was in trouble, needed immediate help and you could help them? (any police officer that would not should just hang it up in my opinion) |
| Originally Posted by kttref I think everyone here would agree that if a fellow officer were in trouble they would jump at the chance to help...BUT with that being said, I think that it might be a different situation if an officer were with his or her small children and the same happened. I don't have kids, so I don't know, but that is what people I work with tell me. Some have said, no matter the situation, if they are with their family (no matter who is getting hurt and how bad) they will not get involved...and I can see their point. Do you really want to risk getting killed right in front of your children? |
| Originally Posted by csauce777 I have a 3 year old daughter. She obviously cant fend for herself in the event that something bad happened (ie: "Run and call 911"). If I am with my daughter and my wife is not with us, the only way I am intervening is if I cant get my daughter to safety and defending her requires my involvment. If my back is against the wall, and I have my little girl is with me, someone is gonna buy the farm, period. If I'm alone and armed, circumstances that I would get involved in off duty would broaden. |
| Originally Posted by Killjoy KT - There's nothing wrong with the 9mm cartridge. Loaded with appropriate hollowpoints, its nothing short of devastating. A 9mm you're carrying on you is better then a .44 magnum you left at home. |

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