| Dear D_____, R__ and friends on H_________ Thank you so very much for your lovely letter. I have been wondering how things are over there but having misplaced your email address and never trusting our mail service I figured we would send mail and hope for the best. It is great to hear from you. Sorry it has taken me so long to reply but we have been away since Thursday and only got home this morning. We took the kids to the beach as Connor was on a month's School vacation. They are both going back again tomorrow. The kids are doing great. They seem to grow while I'm not watching and I am permanently amazed at how quickly we have to replace shoes and the like. However, they are both just great. Connor has started his Kindergarden year this year (our schools run January to December) and he is loving it. I can't believe that he is already 6. Last year he was in the same school but in a Preschool class and got up to alot of mischief but this year finally he seems to have found a teacher that is happy to stimulate him beyond what she does with the other kids and he is having a ball. He is swimming with an instructor and loves it and will soon be starting Baseball (if we can get out schedules worked out). Kendra believe it or not will be turning 3 in July. She is a bright little button and we have her in a small preschool 1 road over from our house (The school is owned by our neighbour). She goes 3 times a week and loves it. She is very sprightly and is involved in just about all activities from Pottery to Gymnastics and Ballet. She is still as tiny as ever. Barely fitting into 2T and happily only weighing about 26lbs but she is feisty and funny and an absolute joy. She drives Connor crazy but I can't think that he would want it any other way. They are always together. We are still staying in Johannesburg in the same house as when we lasted visited and it is fine for our purposes. We have done alot of work to the place and now have a pool, entertainement area and a seperate apartment in the garden for guests. It is very comfortable for us and I honestly can't see myself moving around in SA again. We are however working on immigrating to Canada and have already submitted our applications. Now we just have to play the waiting game. Thankfully they have dropped the French requirement and so our chances of acceptance seem quite good. Compared to living in the states it is like living in a prison. We have an 8ft wall around the property, electric fencing on top of that, a motorrised gated, burgular bars on all the windows, slamlock doors on all the entrances, deadlock bolts on all the door and a burgular alarm throughout with sensor lights and a huge German Shepard called Fudge who does nightime patrol around the garden. Terrible to live like this but you won't believe some of the horror stories that we have happening over here. Two members of Craig's exteneded family were murdered last year in their homes and on both occassions they came through the roof while they were sleeping so now we have an alarm system in the rafters in the roof also. I can think of so many better things to do for my kids than have them subjected to this kind of life. Daily we hear about little girls 3 and under being raped and boys being stolen and sodomised. They deserve better, and yet the President does not believe that we have a crime problem. Canada can't come quick enough for me. Now that the kids are both in school, I have decided to go back to school and am trying to bridge my Degrees into a teaching degree so that I have something to do when we go to Canada. Also the hours that I woudl have to work here if we had to stay just do not seem fitting for a family life so I have decided to move on. I am currently doing a course on Counselling Traumatised Children and it is facinating. We will just have to wait and see how things work out. I won't be going to work before Kendra is 5 anyway so this is just preparation for that event. Craig is doing very well. He and his brother, Michael, still have the business and they have now expanded into importing and Printing. They have quite a substantial customer base and thankfully they actually enjoy each other's company so they tend to do OK with the business. My dad lives a couple of streets away from us and loves it. He stops in every other day or so on the way home and sees the kids for a couple of minutes and he couldn't be happier that we are so close. However he was hijacked in his driveway 2 Friday's ago by three armed men but thankfully they did not hurt him. They also did not get the car as they stalled it and the antihijack mechanism kicked in, so they fled the scene leaving him quite traumatised. My mom keeps trying to encourage him to retire which he has attempted a few times in the last couple of months but the company keeps tempting him back. This time I think he will finally call it quits as he was on his way to work when it happened. I think he realised that his life is just too predicatable and that is what makes him such an easy target. Both my parents turned 65 in April and we gave them a surprise party with all their friends which they enjoyed immensely and on Friday is my mother-in-laws' 65th so we are taking her out for the day on Saturday. We shall see how that goes. Craig and I and the kids will be leaving on Sunday for Spain for 14 days. We are off to see the GrandPrix in Barcelona for the first week and then are travelling to the Malaga area in the south for another week before returning home. We are quite excited about it as we were in Europe over 13 years ago and have always wanted to return. It will be interesting with the kids but I wouldn't think of leaving them so this will be our trial run for future Europe travels. I have quite a few pictures up on the Kodak website that I post for Sarah and Jeffrey and I will send you the links so that you can see how the kids have grown. I am very sad to hear about A___ and E___ and most especially about J____. I know that it had to come to this eventually but it is just so very sad for something like this to happen to someone so very special. If you see her please send her my love. We think about you all often and not a day goes by that we don't both wish we were back there. I hope that your health will improve rapidly now that summer is coming and you can get out and about a bit more. It is so much easier to face adversity when the sun is shining than when you have to stay indoors and think about it all the time. As always, I know that you will put on a brave face and smile for I had never seen any other reaction from you when faced with health issues. We are thinking about you and sending lots of good wishes. Hope this hasn't been too overlong and boring but there is so much to say and so little time to write it all down. I have grabbed a moment while all is quite on the home front. Please send my love to all over there and thanks again for the letter. Keep well and send lots of love to R__ and the others. Michelle and Family. PS: We will be coming over for a visit again in December. Have booked tickets from 6th to 31st. Can't wait and have already begun to plan our trip. Will write more next time. Bye. |
| Originally Posted by Wolfman It sickens me that those who try to do things the right way are denied citizenship and sent "home" to this kind of life, while the thousands of illegals in this country have the audacity to protest in our streets and our elected officials stand by and support them. |
| I say it’s about appropriate immigration reform, not more race based quotas to support a corrupt 3rd world shithole. |
| Originally Posted by CJmajor27 Kozmo, I don't think I've heard of a race based quota supporting anyone.. |
| Originally Posted by justanotherparatrooper You miss the point Rock, In Wolfs post BOTH PARENTS WERE HERE LEGALLY AND LEFT WHEN TOLD TO DO SO now theyre trying to get back LEGALLY. Thats how its supposed to be done.The fact that there are 12 million people here ILLEGALLY is the reason its taking them so long to get back. So yeah, ROUND the lawbreaking borderjumpers up and ship them back so that those that are willing to follow our laws can come here. |
| Originally Posted by KozmoKramer Well I wonder if you've been reading the papers or watching the news CJ. Let me ask you. Have you heard of amnesty? Are there many Koreans or Swedes seeking amnesty? Those that are looking for amnesty, which country are they from? Do you see the chimp in the Whitehouse ordering those illiterate, unwashed, unskilled, uneducated, anti-American Mexican criminals back from whence they came? Do you see the anti-American left ordering the same? Well, neither do I. Thus, if they wont enforce the law, from which a very specific demographic is breaking it, I have to conclude that allowances are being made for that particular race. I care not whether its a matter of policy, its a matter of real life, and you should start thinking for yourself and not what your liberal professor instructs you to think. |
| Just because Mexicans are the majority of illegals, I think is due more to geography than any special treatment. Hispanics have a huge political clout and I'm sure that plays into matters as well. |
| Solution? Maybe its time for a third party that has the guts to do something. |
| Originally Posted by JoninNH So which it? |
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